I'm in college, so I hang out in big groups a lot. And lots of times, we all end up talking at each other at the same time, so no one listens to what anyone else says.
For some reason, I usually pick this time to try to jump into the conversation, and it never works out well for me.
I'll start saying something, and whoever I'm talking to will switch his attention to someone else while I'm still in the middle of my story.
It takes me by surprise whenever it happens. I mean, how do you react to that? I never know what to do, so I usually end my sentence with, "...and then I saw a pink elephant," and put my head down and pray that no one else saw.
One good thing that comes out of this is that it has made me sensitive to other people who are experiencing this. So now I try to pay it forward. When I'm in large groups of people and I see it happening to someone else, I always let them know that I'm listening to their story even if no one else is.
I just wish someone else would do the same for me...

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